Category: Bullying

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Reasons Bullies Hate Those Who Prefer to Be Themselves — Chateau Cherie

Bullies are fake. They have to be to instill fear in those around them. And they resent anyone content with themselves and comfortable in their own skin. 284 more words

Reasons Bullies Hate Those Who Prefer to Be Themselves — Chateau Cherie

Been sometime since touchin base with Cherie’s blog posts of dealing with bullies. So here is the latest offering.

Bullies, Bystanders, Willful Ignorance, Self-Deceit, and Blind Hatred — Chateau Cherie

Bullies with “Target Derangement Syndrome” hold extremely biased opinions about their targets- views that aren’t founded or developed from any evidence of facts. No, their judgments of the targets come from intense emotions alone. And no amount of data, substantial evidence, rational thought, or reason will ever change their minds about their target. These people […]

Bullies, Bystanders, Willful Ignorance, Self-Deceit, and Blind Hatred — Chateau Cherie

Important article from Cherie relating to bullying – Get educated and follow her posts

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Why Bullies “Need” Their Targets — Chateau Cherie

Being aware of the underlying pathology of bullies

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It’s because bullies need scapegoats. The use of a scapegoat is nothing new. People have used them for many millennia! During the Medieval Period, scapegoats were often used by kings to make sure the monarch’s hands stayed clean- or at least looked clean. Back then, it was common practice to execute scapegoats for the wrongdoings […]

Why Bullies “Need” Their Targets — Chateau Cherie

Excerpts to the upcoming book, “A Mile in Charlotte’s Shoes” – Bullying, Social Politics, and the Power Dynamic. (Part 2) — Chateau Cherie

Further updates from Cherie on bullying

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Part 2 …Middle school and high school were periods of time during which- right, wrong, good, bad, ugly or indifferent everything, according to everyone in that awkward age group, was shameful and the definition of what was good or bad (or cool) became blurred and not so clear anymore. 1,022 more words

Excerpts to the upcoming book, “A Mile in Charlotte’s Shoes” – Bullying, Social Politics, and the Power Dynamic. (Part 2) — Chateau Cherie

“A Mile in Charlotte’s Shoes” by Cherie White (Excerpt from Upcoming Book) — Chateau Cherie

A book worth looking out for, where increasing your social circles of support with friends can make a difference.

Charlotte thought back to when she was ten years old. Her best friend at the time was Vera. She and Vera were walking down the street together one afternoon, after getting off at the bus stop. Vera was her only friend. “I don’t understand it.” Charlotte told her, “All people do is run over me […]

“A Mile in Charlotte’s Shoes” by Cherie White (Excerpt from Upcoming Book) — Chateau Cherie

Many Bullies Are Just Angry, Bitter People — Chateau Cherie

Further insights from Cherie on the make up of a bully.

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In many cases, I’ve found that bitterness is the main ingredient of bullying behavior. It is the reason why bullies desire to make someone else suffer. Because people mistreated them in the past, they want to see someone else get abused and will go out of their way to make that happen. Understand that it […]

Many Bullies Are Just Angry, Bitter People — Chateau Cherie

Are You Being Accepted or Only Tolerated? — Chateau Cherie

Tolerance and acceptance are two very different meanings. Using language to undress a problem goes a long way to protecting yourself. One thing bullies don’t have in their armoury!

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When people talk of tolerance, I immediately cringe. I don’t find the word very attractive because let’s be real here. The word itself has an ugly ring to it. To put it bluntly, it sounds downright gross! Sadly, many targets of bullying are so afraid of being alone that they settle for friends who aren’t […]

Are You Being Accepted or Only Tolerated? — Chateau Cherie

Better Safe Than Sorry: Why You Shouldn’t Apologize in the Presence of Bullies — Chateau Cherie

Positve responses to a bully can help you stay in control

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A sincere apology and owning up to any error often show great strength and bravery. It takes a person with integrity to apologize for any wrongdoing because few people will admit they are “wrong”. However, an apology or admission, no matter how sincere or genuine, can also be taken as a sign of weakness in […]

Better Safe Than Sorry: Why You Shouldn’t Apologize in the Presence of Bullies — Chateau Cherie