MY BULLYING STARTED BY A TEACHER By Aimee Eddy — Chateau Cherie

The very nature of a bully can be hidden by respectability and status. But whatever their standing in society bullying should be called out for what it is. 

Bullying happens not only by our peers but also by the people we look up to for guidance and protection. Teachers can be bullies too. We look up to our teacher. We expect them to not only teach us but to protect and help mold us. For me some of my teachers were monsters that […]

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Bullies Will Not Be Deterred Easily — Chateau Cherie

Further instalments of how bullying ruins peoples lives.   

In movies and television, we see scenarios where targets stand up to bullies and automatically either get left alone or become friends with their former tormentors. However, in most cases, this is not reality. Remember that bullies are relentless. Here are the tactics bullies use when a target stands up for themselves: If you are…

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Bullies and Their Willful Ignorance, Self-Deceit, and Blind Hatred — Chateau Cherie

Continued dialogue about bullying:

Bullies with “Target Derangement Syndrome” hold extremely biased opinions about their targets- views that aren’t founded or developed from any evidence of facts. No, their judgments of the targets come from intense emotions alone. And no amount of data, substantial evidence, rational thought, or reason will ever change their minds about their target. These people…

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Why Targets of Bullying Have Trust Issues — Chateau Cherie

What lies behind a bully and the signs to recognise the impact on their targets. 

It’s not that targets don’t want to trust people because they do. They want so badly to be able to trust someone not to harm them or to turn on them. Targets want so much to trust, to be able to relax and to be comfortable in social situations. Only they don’t know who to…

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